12 signs your partner loves you more than you think

Are you having doubts about how much your S.O. loves you? It’s nothing unusual as many people ask themselves the same thing. 

But what if you could get the answer without directly asking them? What if there were signs that they love you more than you think?

Well, you guessed it, in this article, we’ll discover these signs and hopefully reassure you. 

1) You catch them staring at you with that dreamy look

Those lingering gazes aren’t just random; they reflect your partner’s genuine admiration toward you. 

It’s like they’re captivated by you, finding joy in simply watching you exist. It’s a simple non-verbal expression of the affection they feel.

But I hopefully don’t have to explain them to you, do I? Everyone who was/is in love or who loves another person or even a pet has gazed at their admired one at some point. 

And yes, my wife and I catch ourselves less and less gazing at each other and more at our 3-year-old. 

But still, I feel her eyes on me from time to time. 

2) Your happiness genuinely matters to them, and they go the extra mile to ensure it

Whether it’s planning a surprise date or doing a task you dislike, they willingly go above and beyond to ensure your happiness. It’s a clear sign that your joy is a priority for them.

In our home, this typically means me bathing, feeding, and putting to sleep our son, so she can rest in the evenings a bit. 

And on the other side, it means her making lunch for us while I’m working. 

What are some things you or your partner are doing for each other that show how much you care for each other’s happiness?

3) They prioritize your needs over theirs

When your partner consistently prioritizes your needs over theirs, it means they’re deeply invested in your satisfaction and well-being. 

They’re not just saying you’re important; they prove it through their actions. For example, if they cancel their plans to be there for you, it’s a clear signal that they value your company more than their own agenda. 

Similarly, when they make sacrifices, it’s not about grand gestures but the little things that contribute to your comfort and joy. 

It’s their way of showing, “You matter to me, and your happiness is a priority.”

4) Your problems become their problems, and they’re there to support you

Your partner doesn’t see your problems as something separate from their own. Instead, they actively try to solve and deal with your difficulties, showing a willingness to be part of the solution.

This could mean offering advice, brainstorming together, or simply being a sounding board for your thoughts.

No matter how big or small the issue, your partner is consistently present. They don’t selectively engage only in major crises but demonstrate ongoing support for the everyday challenges life throws at you.

5) They try to understand and embrace your quirks

We all have these unique little habits or behaviors that make us who we are. Quirks, if you will. 

Your partner loves you more than you think if they don’t just tolerate them but make a genuine effort to understand why you do them and even find them endearing.

For instance, my wife has a habit of rearranging the pillows on the couch in a particular way. 

Instead of rolling my eyes or getting annoyed, I take the time to ask why she arranges them like that. 

I might not fully get it, but I respect that it’s her thing, and I’m open to understanding why it matters to her.

6) They’re proud to show you off to their friends and family

Your partner feels really happy and excited to introduce you to the important people in their life – their friends and family. 

It’s not just a formality; it’s because they genuinely think you’re awesome, and they want the people they care about to know and appreciate you too.

In conversations with friends or family, your partner doesn’t just stop at the basics. They go on and on about how amazing you are. 

It’s like they’ve got a megaphone, and they’re making sure everyone knows how much they adore you.

7) You just know, deep down, that you’re loved and cherished

It’s that intuitive feeling, that warm and comforting sense that wraps around you, assuring you that you’re genuinely loved.

You know what I mean?

When you’re with your partner, you feel a natural ease and comfort. You don’t question their feelings; you just feel it in the way they look at you, talk to you, and simply share moments with you.

There’s also a silent understanding between you two. You can communicate without words, and they “get” you in a way that makes you feel seen and accepted, flaws and all.

Your joy becomes their joy. It’s not just about them being happy when things go well for you; it’s about them actively contributing to your happiness. 

Your smiles and laughter are genuinely important to them.

And ultimately, beyond physical attraction, you have a profound emotional bond. You feel understood and accepted on a level that goes beyond surface interactions. 

8) They make time for you, even on their busiest days

Does your partner consistently carve out moments for you, even when life gets hectic? This means that, despite having a full schedule and a lot on their plate, they actively prioritize spending time with you. 

It could be a quick phone call during their lunch break, a spontaneous coffee date, or just sitting down together, even if it’s for a short while, to connect. 

It’s a reflection of their commitment and a clear proof that you’re a priority in their life.

9) Small gestures are a regular thing

If your partner consistently does little things that might seem minor but are actually powerful expressions of their love, they’ve mastered the art of thoughtful surprises.

For instance, you’ve had a rough day at work, and when you come home, you find your favorite snack waiting for you on the kitchen counter. 

It’s not a grand gesture, but it’s precisely what you needed at that moment. It’s like they have this natural ability to know what would brighten your day.

Or think about a random Tuesday when you open your bag to find a sweet note tucked inside, expressing how much they appreciate you. 

It’s these unexpected moments of kindness that happen regularly – it’s not a one-time thing. 

It’s a pattern of consistently making your day a bit better in these small, meaningful ways.

10) They remember the little details about you

When your partner remembers the little details about you, it means they’re paying close attention to the smaller aspects of your life that might go unnoticed by others. 

It goes beyond just knowing your favorite color or food; it’s about recalling the tiny, personal details that make you who you are.

For example, it’s not just about remembering your birthday or anniversary; it’s about recalling the day you first met, your first movie together, or other dates that hold sentimental value for both of you.

11) They’re your biggest cheerleader, celebrating your successes as if they were their own

When your partner celebrates your successes as if they were their own, it means they’re not just saying the words “congratulations”; they’re feeling the excitement deep down. 

They share in your victories with this infectious enthusiasm, showing that your wins bring them immense happiness. 

It’s a genuine, heartfelt celebration because they truly care about your happiness and achievements. 

So, if your partner is your loudest and proudest supporter, you’ve got a cheerleader who’s all in for your success!

12) They respect and value your opinions

Does your partner listen and take your thoughts or ideas about something seriously? Do they consider your opinions important, just like their own?

If so, it’s a sign of a healthy connection where both perspectives are not just acknowledged but celebrated.

Whether it’s decisions about the relationship, plans for the future, or even small choices like what movie to watch, they actively ask for your input. Your opinion matters to them.

Final thoughts

Hopefully, you recognized your partner in some of these. But regardless, I’m sure they love you even if they don’t go above and beyond, right? 

Everyone has their own way of expressing love.